What Is BDSM?

What Is BDSM?

Basically, BDSM foot worship is a designation using the initials of Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. It brings together all the fetishist practices revolving around pain (given or received), the balance of power , coercion and humiliation . It is imperative to note that because of this, BDSM covers a very wide field of varied practices. A pair of handcuffs and a ribbon over the eyes fall under BDSM, as does branding or petplay.

From there to think that any practice, from spanking, can be designated as BDSM foot worship, there is a step that some will take without shame. Others prefer to distinguish BDSM foot worship from so-called vanilla relationships . Just like the vanilla edition of a video game is one devoid of mods and extensions, the SM follower is, basically, a Skyrim player who blew up NexusMod Manager. Or if you prefer, vanilla is the tomato / cheese pizza without all the toppings that make the flavor so special.

Find pleasure in pain

It is legitimate to wonder about how one can take pleasure in inflicting or undergoing pain or humiliation (which one generally flees). Above all, note that a masochist (as we understand it here, practicing MS without pathology) does not like pain IN ITSELF . Hit him in the street, he will return one to you. The pain gives him pleasure within a specific framework , and with privileged partners. Likewise for the sadist. A nicer individual in his everyday life can be incredibly cruel in his sexuality, without making him a psychopath.

When I inflict torture, I do not rejoice in pain as degradation. I derive pleasure from my dominant position – from my control , from the intoxication of power – on the one hand, and on the other from erotic pain and therefore from the pleasure brought to my partner. It is a question of each participant in an SM relationship finding their account there. And we come to the heart of the matter, where unfortunately the worst confusion lives.

The true nature of BDSM foot worship

Here I am going to reveal a big secret to you, the very essence of BDSM, the one that will shatter all prejudices and all doubts: the person who really directs the game is the submissive.

With the masculinist myth of the strong man and the general public’s misunderstanding of SM, the idea that there is absolute verticality in the SM relationship continues. The submissive (a woman invariably) likes to be submissive because it would be her nature, and bows down before her master (a bearded man in a dark suit with threatening eyes and a severe expression).

Don’t be blinded by all the decorum that surrounds BDSM foot worship. What should be grasped above all else is its ethics, its social functioning and its values. Do not be fooled by the first comer who, loving to slap his bed mates, takes himself for an irresistible master. Far too many malicious people can use the SM as an excuse for their behavior. You will now know what it is.

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